Today's topic I would like to talk about my husband(!!). Yes, the one who are easily sweat even in air-con room with his oily-holes face, semi-bold (ask his father and you will know), always stained the shirts no matter on what occassion and his overweight issues. I hv no means of teasing him nor humuliate him in public like this but this the fact! And had ENOUGH!
In my life, I hv always strive to improve myself to a better person either physically or mentally. I find that this kind of self-improvement strength/spirit has to come from within yourself that you want to be better (no to show off to other but as your self advancement) and also how others especially those who are dear to you be it family or friends or our society affected you. I do not meant that you should achieve 100% in order to be the SUPERB or the 101% EXCELLENT person but if you just could be better 1% than your worse yesterday I mean you have make a good progress of becoming who you want to be in your life. It's possible. As you all have heard of this cliche - "sikit-sikit lama-lama jadi bukit" / there's no pain without GAIN!
As a wife, I always try my best to make a comfortable "home" for my husband but to him all my effort is worthless. Not only he does not appreciate it, he will try to make the house in a mess... I guess this is what we call "wild-life" family decendant. If you go to his parents' house you will understood what I mean. His "bull-shitting-father" (as he always like to talk rubbish and say the word bull-SHIT) especially, has been a very bad parenting example to the children and this really worried me that he might be just like his father.
How to sum up his father was just very simple as he always care nothing and do nothing for the family - you will directly link him to USELESS parasite (!) and always complaint even there's nothing to complaint about!?! Everyday what he does during weekend is to hide himself in the room or where the computer is and search for cyber-sex! He even took the liberty to print it on paper to show to his children (one small pic per paper this is why global warming is increasing and they blame it to the young generations). And I remember once we have a coursework to do and we need printing he asked us not to print too much so that we will not waste his ink. Bloody hell, is his prono more important than his son's homework???
Cut the long story short - what I want to see in my husband is a loving and caring husband, who listens to his wife! That's all I asked for! Is that too much????? When I see other couples esp the husband who adores his wife and listen to her every words she told him, I really feel that, that's the man I'm looking for!
1. when I asked my husband not to eat meat be it chicken/beef/pork, he won't listen and each day he is getting fatter and unhealthy because of his lifestyle - work, stress and diet!
2. when i asked him to help out around the house, he will do it but skip certain part of the cleaning and said he has done everything!
3. when i asked him to sleep early so that he can rest more, he will say "I have work to rush off by today" and started doing it by checking emails, browsing news on the internet, look at malaysiakini, chit-chatting with some frens who just say hello etc etc... when he finished it's already midnight which means the next day... so what's the difference if he sent it tomorrow?
4. when i asked him to do some exercise in the morning, he will say "yes! i will do it every morning" and when morning comes, he is still sleeping and when i woke up he is still sleeping like a pig.... then he will say, u shd wake me marrr... yeah rite! later he will say i got not enough sleep lar because of me! disturbing his sleep!? no energy through out the day lar, here pain there pain lar, not feeling well lar... etc etc.. all this is because every nite this busy-little bee has been searching for prono in the internet till very late! >< @*&%!!
5. i do sometimes allow him to eat some meat e.g. chicken / duck, and he do got the chance he will gallop the whop chicken. e.g. if he is eating the drumstick, he will gallop the skin and the meat together... if the bone can eat also i think he will swollow it! **headache** as i talk abt it.... then when i asked him "ehh?? where's the chicken skin, he will say his drumstick got no skin on it. :S I nearly boiled to the top! ><
6. then when i asked him to just eat vege and fish, he will make sweet promises saying, OK! darling I will eat vege and fish from today onwards!.. then when at restaurant, when I ordered just one more veges, he will say "HUH... all vege for today arr?? order some braise pork or roast duck larr..." ><>vege all his life...!???
All excuses!!! that i hv to dealt with him. That's why I said it is not easy to be a good wife! he will say i never satisfy and always complaint. hhmmpp... no word to say liao... ><
BTW, do visit this link below, as I find it very meaningful and you could learn from it -
http://www.biblebb.com/files/MAC/HUSBAND.HTM
