Don't mess with me!

I believe that when one tries to run away from their problem / challenges / obstacle in life, they will face greater trouble in life later or sooner. The problem won't just disapper nor slipped away just like that especially when you tried (many ways) to avoid it. No matter what your reason for avoiding nor ignoring your problem; I can assure you that they will come back to face you again.... just a matter of time.

I felt very accomplished when I (and my keke) recently face our fear with our problematic neighbour. I would say there's no other better way to solve the problem that confronting the 'Indian-coward-neighbour' and get things sorted once and for all!!! I hate it when people dare to do dirty things behind your back but dare not even have the guts to admit it after all!! Like the Chinese saying - you have a loud voice but a coward heart! What a shame for a 40++yer old imatured and bitchy-OBS of four children!!!!

I believe that when you dare to face your enemy (face-to-face, eyes-to-eyes), you already won 60% of your battle with your enemy.... the remining 40% is up to your strategy on how you planned to fight in your battle field. And one thing I've gathered right after the confrontation was I felt more mature and I felt I can accomplished more things in my life. I felt rather fullfilled. A feeling which I've not felt for such a long time......

I hate the feeling of hiding or running away from your fear.... it never bring good feelings to my personal well-being. You have to control your own feeling rather than letting your feeling controlling you. In short, you have to be in control on what you are doing. Never let your enemy control you!! or else you will suffer greatly in your life.... feeling useless and never grown up.